Second in a series inspired by my book, Finding My Twenty-Five: The Prime of Your Life Is Now
In 2006, Josh (“Wheels”) was riding his motorcycle at night on State Street. As a college student in his twenties, he was learning, growing, and preparing for his future. His life was about to change as he would have to learn and relearn so much more. He would take his experience with him as he essentially created a whole new world.
Somebody coming from the other direction on State Street didn’t see him as she made a left turn in front of…
First in a series of articles based on my book, Finding My Twenty-Five: the Prime of Your Life Is Now.
Any change in life is challenging, whether we chose the change, or it happens upon you.
Over the next weeks, In this article series, I’m going to be sharing excerpts and stories from my new book, Finding My Twenty-Five: The Prime of Your Life Is Now. Finding My Twenty-Five launched on May 26th on Amazon and Kindle. Here is the link.
I hope you find it inspiring and supportive of your life mission and purposes. And that the reading leads…
First Seek to Understand… Stephen R. Covey
I attended a motivational meeting aimed at helping men find their purposes. A discussion was well underway…
Someone raised his hand and asked,
“How would a teenager feel about this…?”
The presenter stumbled over his words, finally saying that teenagers are just teenagers, “they don’t make any sense at all and are not worth the bother.”
One of just a few teens in the audience reached out to me during the break. He felt deflated. He already had doubts about himself and his worth. He wondered why he was even in the seminar…
The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. The second best time is now. -Chinese Proverb
A land administrator in Africa went to inspect a row of giant cedar trees that were uprooted and destroyed in a severe storm. When he arrived he told the foreman, “You will have to plant some cedar trees here.” The foreman replied, “It takes 2,000 years to grow cedars of the size these were. They don’t even bear cones until they’re 50 years old.” “Then,” said the administrator, “We must plant them at once.”
This story was shared by Spencer W…
“Snow falling soundlessly in the middle of the night will always fill my heart with sweet clarity.” -Novala Takemoto
I was mesmerized, looking out the kitchen window at 5 o’clock in the morning. Snow was falling lightly in the amber tint of the streetlights. After a few moments, a tear came to my eye. But I didn’t know why.
Suddenly the falling snow brought me to a time several decades prior, and a place, 120 miles away. I saw a small airport in the distance. More tears appeared and they began to take on meaning, and to bring…
“Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth.”
Saint James 3:4
As humans we have the freedom, the obligation, to make decisions. One choice we are not given is whether or not to choose. We are constantly faced with countless decisions every day. Looking at a restaurant menu can cause great anxiety for many even if they know that any selection will be satisfying. Selecting a paint color can be challenging even though the worst outcome may be…
“Human beings are naturally cooperative and loving. We enjoy working together.” Peter A. Levine
We know we need to network. We need to connect. We hear it all the time. The truth is that without collaboration and human connection we are bound down, limited, never truly independent. So we gather connections and build relationships. We learn strategies and research how to effectively work with others. We hold networking events, seminars, and group retreats. Online tools provide opportunities to find, filter out and refine contacts worldwide. We are taught how to interact and influence others.
A Lonely Road
I was driving…
Boat builders do more than dream…
A political and administrative shift and department transfers left me in a stupor. I had just been at the peak of job satisfaction. I was hurting, but didn’t want my hurt and irritation to become poison to myself, or toxic to anyone else. I kept quiet and took time to myself. After a few days while in deep contemplation I took a deep breath. I stepped back, searching for perspective. I realized that I was experiencing a form of trauma. I needed some time “away.”
I switched to night shift to avoid the distractions…
“I can go anywhere. I can be anything.” -Reading Rainbow Television Theme Song
Mentors: Santiago (fictional), Paulo Coelho
The Diagnosis and Prescription
At fourteen-years-old I passed a career guidance course on my report card. And yet I was a failure, labelled as indecisive and without purpose. Is that something like being useless?
Problem: I hadn’t picked a career.
Diagnosis: Tools: a lengthy questionnaire, a #2 pencil and a ‘Scantron’ form: I dutifully filled in the little bubbles that corresponded to my answers to a myriad of questions about whether I liked being inside or outside, or talking to people or…
Every moment of life offers us an abundance of choices. Choices matter, and not only to ourselves. No other creature, plant or mineral has the choices that we have as humans. Whichever side of the bed we wake up on, each day is full of choices of how we will interact with and affect the lives of others.
Lost and Alone
I was traveling by train from Santiago to Los Angeles, Chile. For six hours I vigilantly watched out the window for the placard designating the next leg of my journey. Finally I saw the sign I had been…